I told him... kinda... Smiley17: I told GG that I'm meeting with a few fellow Ojarians on Saturday and asked him to come with us. I'm hoping this will work out well. He doesn't know what site I'm part of (yet), but he DID promise to respect my privacy, so I think I'm still safe here.
I explained to him that the site I'm part of is a major part of my life and where I work a lot of things out, so hopefully, he'll respect that and let me keep my space without snooping here. Although that'll be tough to do.
I have a couple of questions:
1. Did I do the right thing inviting him?
2. Should I remove many of my posts?
I'm not totally worried about things, but a lot of this stuff is my own, and only shared with you.
Maybe I should remove them... I don't know what to do.
If I open up this to him, then a lot of what I feel will be kept to myself, and I'll have to go back into hiding.
What do you all think? :-\
Re: I told him... kinda... mydarkdreams: I told my new boyfriend about this site, even sent him to one of the posts here (wasn't mine.. was just profound).. I haven't removed anything.. he knows a lot of what was going on anyways, and he totally respects my privacy here..
Only YOU know how much you want to divulge, if you don't want things ever read then I'd say to edit some of the posts just to make sure - but that'd be a shame too. *hug* good luck!
Re: I told him... kinda... Smiley17: I have so many... I wouldn't even know where to begin. *sigh*
I still don't know...
Re: I told him... kinda... Shanna: I wouldn't change a thing. There are things on here that I wouldn't really want K to read, but if he snoops then....it is his problem. He knows about the site and asks me how you all are doing and stuff, but I have to trust him not to break his word and snoop.
I say keep being open, don't delete anything and try to trust him.
Re: I told him... kinda... skavachi: 1.) I think it is good to invite him. I believe it shows that you are willing to include him in another area of your life that would, otherwise, be unavailable to him.
2.) Well...hmm...Not really sure how to answer this. I tried putting myself in the same situation. I believe that I would not remove any of my posts. They were presented at a time when I was vulnerable, alone, and most of all honest. I think you should cherish those posts and if he realy is in to you as a person, there should be nothing you need to worry about.
Don't go into hiding. Just use electro-shock treatments on him if he learns too much. ;D That ALWAYS does the trick!
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