*grr* he just won't let it go! mydarkdreams: Email from the ex (still have to deal with him on some levels, and it is easier to communicate in email)
"{My name} make the final choice either you stop everything with him or i have to keep this this way w/o seeing {our son} or you . i can tell you the reason but you will never understand. this has to happen i won't back down or change i'm only gonna get more pissed. go find someone else just not this guy. i know you think it's just a way of me controling you but it's not i don't trust him like him or want him around my son. i can't control if you still do it and lie to me about it but i'm asking you please stop no matter how you feel about it stop for me and {our son} .. it's a simple request cut it off make him go away totally this time ."
*WHY* does he not want me with him? Because I met "this guy" aka my boyfriend on the internet. And he was in "HIS HOUSE" - meaning, the ex was still living in MY HOUSE when I met my boyfriend.. and he came to visit me in *MY HOUSE* that the ex was still mooching off of. Well, I met the ex on the internet too, yeesh! ??? WTF?! *grr* it's highly irritating, he will just NOT let it go..
he basically has given me the ultimatum of choosing between an incredible, awesome, sweet, considering, loving, wonderful guy for *me* - or for him to be around his son when he has time. He tries to put it off on me that if our son grows up without a father, that is my fault by my choices.
This is NOT FAIR why is he doing this?! *GRR*
Re: *grr* he just won't let it go! Lumpy: [quote author=mydarkdreams link=topic=19008.msg171174#msg171174 date=1127243609">
he basically has given me the ultimatum of choosing between an incredible, awesome, sweet, considering, loving, wonderful guy for *me* - or for him to be around his son when he has time. He tries to put it off on me that if our son grows up without a father, that is my fault by my choices.
This is NOT FAIR why is he doing this?! *GRR*
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He wasn't there for his son when he lived there! He's not going to change whether or not you stop seeing your honey. He's got nothing to bargain with.
Re: *grr* he just won't let it go! mydarkdreams: Ahhh tooooo true lumpy, I knew I could count on you! *hug*
Re: *grr* he just won't let it go! summerparis: He's full of it. He's trying to manipulate you with the cheapest, lowest shot there is. People always show their true colors when the pressure's on. He'll show his true colors even further if he actually follows through on this pathetic threat. Which I doubt.
Stick to ya guns, girl! Songbird
Re: *grr* he just won't let it go! mydarkdreams: Thankya!!!
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