The sweetest thing I've ever been told... Smiley17: Last night GG and I were on my bed, and naturally, I had one of my overwhelming "life is killing me" moments. I have no idea where it came from, or why it chose that time to hit me, but it did. So, what did I do? I told him that I had an overwhelming wave of "panic". You know, we all get those going through divorces, right?
Well, he hugged me, asked me what he could do to help, told me to talk to him, and I cried. Broke down right there, in front of him, because of my life and the fact that my sbtx STILL hasn't filed anything!
I told him how I felt, let it all out, and he held me and told me that it was all going to be ok.
Not once have I ever had a guy hold me and tell me that it's going to be ok. Seriously! NEVER!
On top of that, while still holding me, he told me that with all of his own darkness, I'm the light that shines bright in his life. It's because of me that he can get up and move in the morning. I'm a light in his life!! :D
Guys, this doesn't happen to me!! ALL of the guys I've dated all told me what a pain I am, and how there's too much drama in my life, and here's a guy who sees me every single day, and he tells me that I'm the light in his life!
I swear to you that I'm not making this up! This is real, and I can't believe it!! After all my stupid panic attacks, silly freak outs, and a few tears, he's here! He's staying here! He wants to support me, emotionally!!
I can't believe this!! I'm on the verge of tears even thinking about it!! This is so unreal!!!
Seriously, if I have him with me, I swear I can and will get through the rest of this divorce. He's more than just a boyfriend, or a date, he's becoming my rock and my support system. Slowly, this is really happening!
I feel like I'm in a dream right now. If I am, please don't wake me!
Re: The sweetest thing I've ever been told... tyrogers: awwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :-* how sweet!!
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Re: The sweetest thing I've ever been told... tara: Aww...that's wonderful. It's great when you get someone who accepts you for who you are, baggage included.
I had a breakdown about 7 months into my relationship with J -- when my ex had his going-away party before he moved out of state; not so much because he was leaving the state but because of the weirdness of everything (including seeing my ex in-laws). He just let me cry in his arms for awhile, lent me a shirt to sleep in (it was very late, and he had his daughter with him -- first time I'd stayed there when his daughter was there), and held me as I fell asleep. It was what I needed.
Re: The sweetest thing I've ever been told... Bubba: Alright I really need to have a talk with GG. He is really going to make it hard for us NORMAL guys isn't he??? Sheesh. Guys are not suppose to be so damn nice. It makes the rest of us look bad.
hehehehe - Nice post, Sis.
Bubba
Re: The sweetest thing I've ever been told... whatnext: K,
It was a nice post.
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Alright I really need to have a talk with GG. He is really going to make it hard for us NORMAL guys isn't he??? Sheesh. Guys are not suppose to be so damn nice. It makes the rest of us look bad.
hehehehe - Nice post, Sis.
Bubba
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Bubba, SG PMed me and he was farting and burping the whole time, so it's all good.
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