should I send it sparks: My exhusband is currently deployed and I am getting ready to send a care package that includes all the kids school work and letters. A couple of years ago, we had seperated for awhile and I gave him a picture of me in a frame. It is currently sitting on a mantle in my home. Should I send it to him?
Re: should I send it Older Guy: What are you trying to accomplish ?
Re: should I send it lilly10: I guess I have the same question as older guy what would you want to accomplish from sending him a picture of you? I guess I have to say without any further info on this matter that I would not send it.
Re: should I send it charmed: I think a lot depends on your break-up and the current relationship between you. Are there still harsh feelings? Is there civil communication? Has he mentioned the picture?
Since you gave him this picture, it is his, but I don't really see the need to send it to him unless he requests it. It might be better to wait until he comes back and ask if he wants it.
`charmed
Re: should I send it sparks: I really dont know why I want to send it. I think because the first time I gave it to him he loved it and said that he talked to the picture as if he were talking to me and it led to a reconciliation. Although the divorce is final I guess I still hope we will eventually get back together. I have decided not to send the picture but instead put it in the box of his stuff that is still at the house.
