Going to hang out with my friends...but... girliegirl: One of my really good friends moved away about a year ago, had always spent time with me and my ex...was in my wedding, etc...when she moved away was when the divorce happened and I have only talked to her on the phone since and emailed. She has been begging me to come see her and her new place, the problem is she has known my new bf and had a little problem with him at the beginning (misjudgement on her part, everytime was while drinking, if you get what i'm saying, thigns get really misconstrued) anyway after i had been apart from my ex and was newly with my new bf she invited me up and i invited him to come along (i didn't know she had a bad judgement of him at the time-this is when i found out) so needless to say that trip didn't happen, now it is a few months down the road and she told me the other day how she misses us spending time together and she wants me and my bf to come see her and her husband (whom i dislike her husband) i really miss her and want her to see how wonderful my bf is but he is hesitant(yes, i told him everything she said because i was tryingto get to the bottom of it and now wish i hadn't ever told him) so he's weird about going but after everything she has now apologized for judging him and that she's happy that i'm happy, blah blah ...so now present, we are planning a trip there in 3 weeks and my bf is acting like he's going to back out. i completely understand his point of view but there are somethings i do with his friends that i don't particularly care for but do because i know he wants me to...what do i do? i don't want to force him to go but after everythign that went down about me and him at the beginning between me and my girl friend i can't go alone...i am letting this get the best of me and i shouldn't....any advice/tips???????? please.....
Re: Going to hang out with my friends...but... tyrogers: I'm not a guy, so I can't give you an opinion on it. If the roles were reversed though, I would be there with bells on and would never consider backing out!!!! But, that's just me. ;D
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Re: Going to hang out with my friends...but... girliegirl: that's how i feel too but i do understand the uncomfy feeling he may have...i think another part of me is i want him to have to suffer through it like i will and that is awful. i just want to spend the weekend with him, not drive 4 hrs and then drive it back and lose a whole weekend and have to go back to work immediately and pay to have the vet keep my dog and ugh i better stop...i sound horrible don't i...i do love my friend but...i need a weekend at my house, with my bf, alone, when will that ever happen??!! not the next few weekends...
*sorry, that felt good to get out*
