Moving out moving on lostboy: My ex called last night wanting to pick up the rest of her things including a dresser we had both purchased together a year ago. I made sure I wasn't around when she showed up. I felt stupid not being able to enter my my own home but I simply could not deal with watching her and her "girl friend" rifle through whats left of our stuff. When she left she actually called and left a message on my cell to let me know she had gone in case that was the reason I wasn't there..OF COURSE that was the reason I wasn't there.
She doesn't seem to get the concept that I'm trying NOT to have any contact with her. Ughh and everytime she calls she sounds pre-ocupied with her "friend" gigling in the back ground. It makes me sick to my stomach. she still hasn't picked up eveything. I wan't to box it up but why should I it's not my crap it's not my responsibility.. I'v paid the lease through to November and I'm moving out into my own place this Friday. I can not wait to leave that apartment..Maybe I will box her stuff up and just leave it in a corner of the apartment. Thank fully I have some very dear friends who are going to help me move and then we are all going to celebrate that evening by getting piss drunk..
It will be nice to be on my own with my own things and my own thoughts again. I just need my own space to recoup and re-generate. I'm going to miss my dog though, The apartment I'm moving to is simply too small for her so she's going to have to stay at my parents house for a while.
God I'm so ready to just be through with this. with her..and all of the drama and just move on..I wish she'd stop trying to be friends with me for a while.. stop acting like it's no big deal that she's torn our marraige apart. But I'm getting the point I don't really care. I just want my own space again...that's all I care about right now...a place to heal and find some solace.
Lostboy
Re: Moving out moving on sadaboutdad: Have you told her this? She might think that you might want to be friends. If you haven't come out and said "I am trying to heal this wound and I do not want contact with you" Then you haven't been clear enough. If you have, do the broken record, "I don't want to see you, I don't want to talk to you, I don't want to see you, I don't want to talk to you." Hammer it home, let her know she is NOT wanted in your life anylonger!!
Re: Moving out moving on Feel: the way I see her stupidity of giggling in the back ground bull... Obviously they are taking it as a joke and they think that it's ok to just hurt people...
She to me sounds cold hearted and will realize the lose of a good man when she actually doesn't know where youa re anymore or what your doing!
I hope that all the strength you ahve keeps you strong and moving forward. to be honest I wish I had some of your strength... It's a real bitch to feel shitty from the time you wake up to the time you go to bed!
She is laughing now but I hope you have the last laugh...
Keep strong Lostboy!
Re: Moving out moving on toofast: I am sorry that she is so callous about your feelings. That to me is the worst part.
Don't box her stuff up. Make her do it. She has to take some responsibility for what she has done. Don't make it easier on her.
Re: Moving out moving on Mooneyes: Congratulations on taking some of the first steps of your new life! I hope that you can surround yourself with things you love, and people you love. It is hard when someone else has made a new life, but hasn't taken care of finishing up with the old one. I wish she would get her stuff out of your space, but you only have a few more days of it.
You are free!
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