Re: Makes you wonder... beautifulgirl: you know i always think why too, but i have no answers, i try to give up and not think but i couldn't.
Try not to think.
Re: Makes you wonder... alonewith2: I agree with the rest. I still wonder the hows and whys. How for me is when did he have the time to do it. I keep thinking back to figure out how he was able to fit this double life in the picture. Then the whys jump in all the time. I wonder why I he did it to begin with, and why I was too dumb to figure it all out sooner.
For me it is trust issues. I feel that I won't be able to completely trust again if I can't find those answers.
Re: Makes you wonder... Yeehaw: I don't know if there ARE answers.
What goes through somebody's mind when they decide to cheat is something I cannot fathom - it simply DOES NOT MAKE SENSE to me.
Why is it that coming to the conclusion that the cheaters are just INSANE fits?
Maybe beautifulgirl is correct - don't think.
:-\
Re: Makes you wonder... Bubba: YeeHaw -
I was like that once. Maybe it is because as guys we always try to be logical. We always want to solve things. You know what? Some times things just aren't logical. In time you will find you no longer care about the "why" because it just won't matter. I honestly don't ever think about the why or anything else for that matter. She is my ex-wife. We had something once, and now we don't. It's life. Time marches on, and one day, my friend, you will wake up and realize the "how" and "why" really don't matter, because by that time, it is history. Trust me, one day you won't be plagued by these questions.
Bubba
Re: Makes you wonder... ga_sunshyne: For God's Sake...somebody please tell ME when that day is gonna come. One day I'll think it's here and the next BAM I'll wake up and that will be the first thought on my mind. I am seriously sick and tired of being sick and tired you know. I'll find myself driving down the road and that's all I am thinking about and I keep playing everything, from conversations to fights to informatino I have received regarding the two of them and I just drift off into this other world where I am searching for answers and no one has them. Kinda sucks. But then again I'll have days where it never crosses my mind. It doesn't help either that he won't just let me go. He has got this thing about trying to keep me in limbo whilst he carries on his life living with the OW.
UGGGHHHHH!!!! It jsut sucks!!!
sunshyne
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