Re: Blown Away ajw: Angers good,angers your best friend at a time like this,get a lawyer involved,change the locks on your house,if she's coming round stealing furniture and money you need to block her access to the house.
Oh and she will come crawling back at some point....the tricky thing you have to decide is do you want her back,if you can figure the answer to that question before she asks...then you will be in a stronger positiom
Andy
Re: Blown Away charmed: I agree that it's best to take steps to protect your interest. She cannot be trusted at this point and you should not feel bad about doing everything to protect yourself, your children, your home and your assets.
I had to heightened the security in my home due to threats from my ex-husband. At first I felt kind of guilty because this was my HUSBAND. But, I realized I had to protect myself. He wasnt concerned with my well-being and even went so far as to say he wants me dead. I had no choice but to look after myself.
Re: Blown Away Dire Wolf: I have already taken her house key when she left her keys at my house the other day. However, I had to trust her at my house when I was at work the other day and thats when she robbed me. Since then, I've been relying to friends and family to be with my kids when I'm working because I can't trust her in my house and she doen't have a safe environment to bring my children to.
I cleaned out my bank account the day she left and I've filed for custody and child support and I'm cancelling all my credit cards tomorrow. But, I havn't gotten a lawyer invloved yet. It's such a shame that I have to even think like this and that I can not even trust the mother of my children to be with them, but I'm worried for their welfare and for my finances to provide for my kids.
Re: Blown Away Samarra: My heart goes out to those kids.....but you sound like a great dad who's doing everything right.
Oh...and if she does come crawling back as ajw said....won't it feel good to have the final say.
Goes without saying.....you deserve better.
Re: Blown Away ajw: Well i'd get a lawyer involved or she may claim your preventing her from seeing the kids,you need to get it on record that she robbed you last time she was in the house and that she has no safe enviroment for the kids.
I know this is your wife and you love her,but she's backing herself into a corner and the only way-out for her will be to come out fighting,thats why you should get the law on your side now.
Andy
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