Re: Blown Away charmed: [quote"> I just can't wrap my brain around it[/quote">
I believe that's the most hurtful part - the inability to comprehend another's horrible behavior to the disregard that we have any feelings. It's as if they suddenly forget we exist.
I understand the feelings of wanting to seek vengence. It's natural when someone has hurt you so profoundly. But, it can get out of control and more oftten than not we are left feeling worse with the regrets.
I honestly don't know what helps in alleviating these feelings. tonight I came so close to beating the heck out of my ex's cherished guitars LOL I thought about burning it. He still has my house full of his belongings and our break-up was in May. There's never a day that I don't feel the need to "act", but I let it go. I know in the end I'll be better for it.
I wish you the very best
~charmed
Re: Blown Away ChiefWiggum: Dire,
I think If your wife has any brains at all she is going to realize what she is doing is wrong and come crawling back to you. Not saying this is a good or bad thing, but I think it will happen in the future.
I personally don't understand abandoning your own kids. Super strange.
Sounds like you're a smart guy and I'm sure you'll make it out better.
CW
Re: Blown Away Samarra: You're welcome.
As for the children.....that's the reason you need to focus all your energy on them right now.
With everything your W is putting them through they need you more than ever!
Hey....don't worry about the length of the posts...you keep venting away...it helps.
Re: Blown Away Dire Wolf: Thanks chief. I'm not sure I want here back anymore. She has shown a track record now. She broke off our engagement whan I agreed with her parrents that she shouldn't quit cosmotolgy school when she had already paid for it and only had 3 months left. If I took her back she's just gonna put me through another experrience like this when the urge hits her. Seeing her crawl, I have to admit, would give me sooooo much pleasure though. She only works 2 days a week and he is unemployed so I don't see her lasting long over there. She is sitting in the Titanic and it's just a matter of time.
Re: Blown Away Dire Wolf: Samarra - those kids are my entire existance now and I wont lose focus of that. I went to their school and asked that they have the guidence councelor talk to my 10 year old daughter becase she has a firm grasp of what is going on here and is heartbroken. My 6 year old son doesn't get it but cries now and can't give me a reason why he is doing it. I'm trying to still not talk bad about their mother in front of them and try not to let them see me break down. It's hard being the only responcable parrent in a situation like this. I'm gonna get them their own therapist in the next few weeks to try and help them cope. Luckily I have excellent benifits from work and I have the resorces available to me. Its too hard for me to explain their mother's behavior when I'm so angry with her and I don't understand it myself.
I am so glad I stumbled across this forum tonight. There are alot of helpful, friendly, understanding people here. Thanks to all!
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