SIX WEEKS and NO reply charmed: This is probably redundant to some of you that know my story. My break-up with my bf was this past May. We've had a LITTLE contact, but nothing along the lines of answers and closure. He's been weird and cryptic. He admits he was the one that destroyed our relationship. Oh I AGREE!!! He says he is near a nervous breakdown and very confused with who he is. He doesn't like himself. I don't like him either right now LMAO
Anyway, I replied to his email SIX weeks ago in regard to his belongings that are STILL at my home. We are talking about a LOT of items. He has not replied. Most are cherished items. Not things he would want to let go.
Now what man in their right mind (this could be a clue LMAO) would leave their things here, neglect to reply in a SIX week period?
I don't plan to reply. If I get tired of seeing his crap, I'll have a bonfire or head to e-bay. Replying again would be humiliating. I even had a friend to change the password to my email account so that I can't open it. Seeing anything from him hurts. Not seeing anything hurts.
But, this doesn't even make sense. If he wants us over (he said he never did, but isn't strong enough to be in a relationship), then why doesn't he bring this to a finality in every way?
My rambling LOL isn't about his "belongings", but the MENTALITY behind of this man. I use the word "man" VERY LOOSELY!!! LOL
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Re: SIX WEEKS and NO reply ajw: he's obviously feeling guilty and does not want to face you,send him one last message saying he has a week to get his stuff and if he does'nt its going out to the trash,list all the items on your message as well,that way he cant complain in the months to come..
Keep strong
Andy
Re: SIX WEEKS and NO reply Samarra: >:( No....don't do it!! No more chances...sorry I couldn't keep my big mouth shut! LOL!
Re: SIX WEEKS and NO reply charmed: [quote"> he's obviously feeling guilty and does not want to face you[/quote"> ">
AJW I first thought the same thing, BUT I mentioned someone else picking his belongings up and he seemed to get upset that HE wouldn't be the one. I told you he doesn't make sense LOL
Thanks for your reply
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Re: SIX WEEKS and NO reply charmed: [quote"> No....don't do it!! No more chances...sorry I couldn't keep my big mouth shut! LOL