When does it get better? Change4better: I've been seperated now 4 months, and now 2 weeks with no contact, I have 2 daughters, so from time to time I have to call for my girls, Thank god my daughters have a cell phone, which make it easier for me to contact them without going though my STBXW. I just find myself missing her when I don't contact her, I also Wonder whether or not she misses me. Hate the cat and Mouse chase, but i guess its human nature to play these games. I know in my heart she is seeing someone intermittly just to cover the pain and the hurt she is encounting with our break up.. after all you just don't fall out of love after 15 years of marriage. For now, i'm doing things for myself to make me happy and build the self confidence that everything is going to be ok, HOwever no one ever said it wasan't going to be easy.
Hugsss everyone and thanks for listenning.
Change
Re: When does it get better? Dire Wolf: I hear ya change. I'm in a similar situation with my wife. How can you fall out of love like that. We had 11 years invested in this. And I'm only a week removed from my situation and it sucks to know that in 4 months I could still be dealing with the petty games. Its so hard to put my pride to the side in all this and call her for my kids, but it takes a big man to put himself secondary to his children and suck it up. I hope it gets better my friend. Hang in there.
Re: When does it get better? summerparis: When you miss your ex, call a friend, post here, go for a walk, call your daughter..."whatever gets you to the light, is all right" (John Lennon)
IT DOES GET BETTER WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT!
Re: When does it get better? unhappy: In time...................you will heal and move on in time......but the pain before hand sucks!!!Good Luck and thanks god for cell phones.
