The point beyond repair ih8BeinAlone: Question for OJAR members...
Have you every been to that point where you forced yourself to realize that things in your relationship have gotten so bad you just give up? That's where I'm at... quick recap...
Got into a relationship with a woman and really liked her, I wouldn't commit, she found someone else. I regretted not committing and tried to win her back. She wouldn't come back but still continues to call me constantly, we have been playing games with each other. Like when I stop calling her she calls me consistantly, when I call her she stops calling me etc...
Anyways, since she's already slept with someone else. And since I wasn't willing to commit there's just been a lot of weird dynamics and negative feelings over the past 2 months. At this point I guess I've realized that I don't think things can even be repaired as they've gotten so out of hand.
My question is I'm about to send her an email saying that I don't really think we should talk for a while. Just wondering if anyone else has ever been to that point where things just can't be prepared?
Re: The point beyond repair Older Guy: I know this does't really answrer your question bit...why don't you consider to stop the game playing and sit down and talk ?
Re: The point beyond repair ih8BeinAlone: Well OG, i guess i'm just tired of the games all that. We've tried to reconcile but I don't think i'll ever get over the problems we had etc... I think it's beyond repair. I guess i just want to get on with my life and get completely over her. Maybe when we can get over each other we can be friends.
Re: The point beyond repair lilly10: Well there you go sounds like your mind is made up. Relationships with games will never work out so now is a good time to start to get over her. I'm not sure how close you two are but perhaps you may want to tell her in person rather then an email??
Re: The point beyond repair ih8BeinAlone: Lilly,
thanks for the response. too late though, i already sent the email. we haven't seen each other in like 3 weeks anyways. i don't think i want to see her for a very long time. i'll lose all my strength :)
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