Loss Mooneyes: The Ending of a relationship especially a marriage creates loss for us to grieve. Other than lossing that person we also lose dreams, security, sexual partners, dining companions, and friends.
I keep thinking that I am getting along all right. But then I remember something I need. Something I lost.
Here are the things I am missing today.
Someone else to deal with the fact there is a mouse in the house. (I let out a tiny scream every time I see it and it makes me feel less manly :( )
Someone to help me deal with the fact that I have a flat tire and will have to deal with mechanic guys
someone to sit on the couch and watch movies with.
Travelling companion
and the one that is really worrying me today. Someone for me to have my big pms fight and will still talk to me afterwards.
I know there are more, and surely they don't all revolve around people.
What losses are you recognizing?
Re: Loss twetifb: My stbx and I didn't share a life...we shared a bed. I mostly feel the loss of my dream. The dream of a life partner, children, and a future of memories. I'm not giving up on that dream though, I'm just post poning it for a little.
Re: Loss alonewith2: I have to agree with you, Tweety. It is apparent that the bed was all my STBX and I shared. He never bothered to share in any other aspect of my life. So I'm still waiting for that life person, too!
Re: Loss dgiirl: heh, we didnt even share that... well we shared it at different times.
as for the pms, i'm noticing that they are getting BETTER since he left. I use to get really really sick during those times. I guess it was stress related cos I've been doing really well lately.
Re: Loss kittenpants: I am with you on this dgiirl...
I am missing kisses and hugs. And someone to call me "Pantseee"
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