She's an A-HOLE! greg41: I just want to call her. I know it’s not going to do me any good but even though she left me, I miss her. At the same time I hate her for this!
PLEASE DON’T TAKE THIS THE WRONG WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!
I know this won’t sound good but I could deal with her death better than this. I’ve been left in limbo and I don’t know if I should move on or wait for her to figure out if she wants to work this marriage out.
I guess calling her an A*S*S-H*O*L*E won’t hurt!
Re: She's an A-HOLE! charmed: Being in limbo never feels good and I understand what you mean about death being easier to deal with. It certainly isn't that you want her to die, but with death comes finality.
When someone can't make up their mind, it throws you into a confused, emotional and limbo state. You have no idea if there will ever be a finality from their end. At some point, we have to make the decision and bring something that hurts us to an end, if they won't.
I wish you the best ;D
`charmed
Re: She's an A-HOLE! lghawaiian: The question would be:
Do you want her to come back? Sit and ask yourself this before you ask anything else. Think about it for a good amount of time. Then, once you have answered this, you can see how it affects the questions beneath it.
Remember to try to keep a rational head and take things step by step in a logical fashion. I know the pain can be overwhelming, but stick with your head. If you stay logical and rational, you will be so proud of yourself when you come out of this, whatever direction it takes.
Re: She's an A-HOLE! greg41: [quote author=charmed link=topic=19541.msg178089#msg178089 date=1128029912">
Being in limbo never feels good and I understand what you mean about death being easier to deal with. It certainly isn't that you want her to die, but with death comes finality.
When someone can't make up their mind, it throws you into a confused, emotional and limbo state. You have no idea if there will ever be a finality from their end. At some point, we have to make the decision and bring something that hurts us to an end, if they won't.
I wish you the best ;D
`charmed
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I went into this marriage with strong values and the commitment to work through anything. I can’t be a hypocrite because I’m uncomfortable but I really want to.
I want to tell her to F-OFF!
Question number 2…..how long do I wait before I end it?
Re: She's an A-HOLE! bamboo: [quote"> I know this won’t sound good but I could deal with her death better than this[/quote">
I can remember saying the same thing when my ex left me. Being in limbo is tough. Loving someone and hating them at the same time sounds impossible, but it does happen. I found with me though, I was in love with who he used to be and hated the person he became when he left.
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