Re: need advice ashamaliedarn: I know that my advice will not be taken and probably be seriously offensive or angering to some people....cause I only have a one year old. But, if I had a five year old who was asking/saying that kind of stuff, I would tell them the truth. Don't lie to the kids, it only makes it harder in the end. Because when they think daddy is coming home, and find out that all this time he wasn't....it'll hurt more. Just the way I think of it.
Re: need advice starzluv: i think the only reason i haven't told the kids that he isn't comming home is because he has implied that he wants us to try to work things out. i want us to work things out, and he says that he loves me, but i don't know what's going to happen, and i don't want to tell the kids he's never gunna move home and then have him do it. then i look like the liar
