Re: He Just Dosen't Care, Does He? EssieDotCom: I think that you deserve much better than this sweetie. there are men, out there, somewhere, that treat women with respect, care and concern. When you find some please give them my # lol no really though, all jokes aside, there are good men out there. You deserve much better. HUGGGGGGS
Re: He Just Dosen't Care, Does He? dgiirl: I was so petrified when my ex left me. I thought he was the best that I could ever have and was scared that all other relationships would be 1000 x's worse. I didnt want to let go. I was willing to beg, compromise myself, accept so little, just to keep him in my life. Thankfully, I never showed him this, but this is what i was thinking. My therapist asked me why I was willing to accept crumbs from this man. I thought long and hard about that. THen it hit me. It's because I was petrified of getting into a worse relationship than I already had. I believed i couldnt make it on my own. I was scared to live on my own, something bad might happen to me. I eventually realized that I could live on my own. And I would rather live by myself for the rest of my life, than to go back into another horrible relationship. The worse worse case scenario is that I'll be happy alone. That's the worse case scenario? That's not so bad! Honestly, it's not THAT bad. And from there, endless amazing possibilities could arise from it. I might find someone who truely loves me and wants to give me the world. Girl, we have options! You can continue to live the way you are living, miserable with someone who doesnt respect you, OR you can live alone and learn to make yourself happy. Once you put yourself back onto the top of the priority list, countless other good possibilites can arise. Believe in yourself and have faith. Everything else will take care of itself.
