Re: I hate me so much.......... lilly10: Hi Feel,
Please dont hate yourself!!! This man is treating you in a terrible way and seems only concerned with himself and his own feelings and not yours. To say that he wishes he never got married is so cold. I dont know exactly what is going on but seems he is controlling everything right now by leaving you hanging there. The best way to deal with a person like this based on my expierence is to take back control of your own life as hard as it may be. He will just leave you hanging forever if he can. You need to make your own decision right now and decide what it is you want for you and your son.
Re: I hate me so much.......... Feel: Thanxs everyone...
lilly, that is the problem finding out how to take conrtol
Re: I hate me so much.......... Erin: [quote"> I don't know why I love him, but I do... I am a mess, I feel I am cought between a hardrock and a wall. Does this make sence...
I feel I can counsel others but not my own life.[/quote">
I'm with you Feel...
If you find out a way to take control that sticks can you let me in on it too please? I can't seem to be in control for longer than a day...
Just wanted to let you know that I'm right there with you girl!
Re: I hate me so much.......... summerparis: Hi Feel, sorry that things are so hard. If you can stay at home and cry all day, then by all means do so.
Many times at the end of something, people will say and do terrible things, either to vilify the other person or to get an emotional reaction out of the other person. You'd be better off not responding to the comments he's making about throwing the marriage away if he could, or having nothing and just paying child support. Don't let him push your buttons, and don't take the bait he's throwing out, looking for a fight. That's how you take control.
It sounds like you're doing better, Feel. PM me if you want to talk more.
xox Songbird
Re: I hate me so much.......... Mooneyes: Sounds like a jerk to me. Those sorts of conversations are very hard to deal with. I think that breaking down and crying after such a hurtful conversation would be normal.
Reminds me of what my Mom always used to say. It takes 5 warm fuzzies to get rid of one cold prickly.
Girl We need to load you up with some warm fuzzies!
You are going to be alright but it takes time.
You are strong underneath it all.
Don't expect too much from yourself right away.
(Hugs)
Mooneyes
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