Re: I'm a newbie...and heartbroken lilly10: cyncyn,
Do not drop out of college it will be the worst thing you can do right now! Trust me you will look back when your heart starts to heal even a little and regret that. We can all relate to our hopes and dreams being flushed down the toilet. Trust me if you asked me 2 months ago what I would be doing today it would not be finding a realtor to sell my house and moveing back home to MA. You can get through this the begining is the worst but it will slowly get better as I am seeing this for myself. We all have inner strenth in us that somehow will help pull us through.
I do think that he did the right thing by telling you this as much as it hurts he told you himself. I had to find out by playing detective.
Keep seeing the counselor they will help you.
Re: I'm a newbie...and heartbroken cyncyn_22: [quote author=lilly10 link=topic=19579.msg178739#msg178739 date=1128105735">
cyncyn,
Do not drop out of college it will be the worst thing you can do right now! Trust me you will look back when your heart starts to heal even a little and regret that. We can all relate to our hopes and dreams being flushed down the toilet. Trust me if you asked me 2 months ago what I would be doing today it would not be finding a realtor to sell my house and moveing back home to MA. You can get through this the begining is the worst but it will slowly get better as I am seeing this for myself. We all have inner strenth in us that somehow will help pull us through.
I do think that he did the right thing by telling you this as much as it hurts he told you himself. I had to find out by playing detective.
Keep seeing the counselor they will help you.
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I'm definately going to keep going to counseling. I'm a person who feels the need to share my feelings. That's why I'm here at this message board! :)
cyncyn_25
Re: I'm a newbie...and heartbroken cyncyn_22: Just to let everyone know, I don't have internet access at home (remember, I'm a poor college student :P), so I'll continue to post again Monday.
Just thought I'd let yall know so you wouldn't think I was ignoring your replies or something.
Everybody has been so helpful, I'll definately make this a second home. ;)
cyncyn_25
Re: I'm a newbie...and heartbroken cyncyn_22: I'm back! Hope everybody's having a great Monday.
Yesterday was miserable. I was around my family all day, around people I love, and I felt as miserable as ever.
Saturday, however, I felt so happy and cheerful you'd think none of this break up stuff had ever happened. All I could think about was how much I still loved my ex and how I have found it in my heart to forgive him.
Is this normal? I'm so confused right now. ???
cyncyn_22
Re: I'm a newbie...and heartbroken ya_crow: Don't worry it's very normal, almost always happens. We have good days and bad days, some people here have refered to it as a rollercoaster and that's such a good description. Sometimes it can be so disheartening to go backwards, but each time you do take a dip in spirits it'll be for less time and you'll be less down. That's the theory at least.
It comes as a shock when you think you're going to be okay to suddenly find yourself at a low point again. Bear with it, time is the only thing which mends a broken heart.
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