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Re: THE ULTIMATUM KdUb: [quote author=Lumpy link=topic=19582.msg178961#msg178961 date=1128121350">
  You're not a moron! You're just not willing to throw your marriage away without a fight. In my eyes you've done everything you could. She has no choice? Is this guy holding a knife to her throat? She's the moron. 
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You know, I have often wondered if she is scared of him in some way.  She drops little hints here and there but you're the second outsider to mention something to that effect. 

I may need to have this a$$hole investigated afterall.  For her sake.  Background check or something. 
Re: THE ULTIMATUM lilly10: You are not a moron!! You just wanted to save your marriage.

You did the right thing it sounds like she just tries to spare your feelings! If she was really going to take time to think it would not be in some hotel room with the OM in Vegas. Letting go is so hard but she has jerked you around enough.


Re: THE ULTIMATUM Lumpy: [quote author=KdUb link=topic=19582.msg178963#msg178963 date=1128121532">

I may need to have this a$$hole investigated afterall.  For her sake.  Background check or something. 
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  To be frank, I was just illustrating a point. There is no reason why she couldn't take you and not him. As tempting as it might be, don't blame him for her actions. She's throwing your marriage away not him.
Re: THE ULTIMATUM KdUb: [quote author=Lumpy link=topic=19582.msg178969#msg178969 date=1128121930">
  To be frank, I was just illustrating a point. There is no reason why she couldn't take you and not him. As tempting as it might be, don't blame him for her actions. She's throwing your marriage away not him.
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You are right.  Might be reading too much into it. 

Guess what tho.....I just got an email saying, "I JUST CANCELED THE TRIP"  Nothing else.

I sent one back saying, "So now what? Tell me what that means."  No answer.....yet.

ARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHh
Re: THE ULTIMATUM Lumpy: [quote author=KdUb link=topic=19582.msg178973#msg178973 date=1128122495">


Guess what tho.....I just got an email saying, "I JUST CANCELED THE TRIP"  Nothing else.

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    This is a good thing! Try and maintain your composure big guy. Maybe the dam is about to crack. I got my fingers crossed for you.

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