Re: Need Advice alonewith2: You really need to stand up for yourself and voice your concerns and opinions on what you want for your own well-being. If you two are getting a divorce, you are going to have to realize that from now on, it will be just you again.
It's nice and thoughtful that you want to do something that will benifit you both, but if it isn't mutually benificial and will leave you in more debt, then don't go along with it. You shouldn't let your concerns about him jeopardize your future happiness.
My STBX did the same thing. I had worked on my credit issues and had just gotten them all solved when I met him. Then 5 years later, he managed to ruin my credit all over again!! Now here we are, eventually getting a divorce, but I feel that I haven't gained anything from are time together!
Re: Need Advice Debbie: Well I meet up with my husband for lunch. He had a spreadsheet ready to go on his pocket pc. I asked him to send it to me by email because I could not read it very well as he was switching between pages. The final conclusion is he can not keep the dogs because no apartments will take the dogs, but we have to sell the house and I will have to move and try to find a place that will accept two dogs. Not only that but when I asked him to please watch the dogs for the holidays he said he would not be able to because he is flying to his mom's house. I am flying to my friends house because I have no living family. I feel so alone. I do have a good friend here but she can not watch the dogs because she will already have a full house. I need to find a place to live in the middle of all of this. I hope this gets better because all I feel everyday is worse!
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Re: Need Advice alonewith2: Are there any kennels where you live that can watch them for the few days?
Re: Need Advice Erin: What grades to you teach Debbie? If you teach in a high school is it possible to find a couple of kids to housesit and look after your dogs for you?
If not, look into kennels. I know you need to look early as they tend to be busy at that time of year.
Ask your H to pay for half of the kennel costs.
Have you contacted a lawyer yet? Get him or her to stand up for you if you are afraid to. Don't let yourself get walked over in this.
Be strong. You've all ready lost so much, don't let him take anything else he doesn't deserve. Even then, don't give it to him easily.
