Re: still can't control my impulses! so i'll post. AloneandCold: What do the parents think? Just had to ask.
Re: still can't control my impulses! so i'll post. dumpling: her mother is probably thrilled that she has stolen for herself a nice, hard working man (i mean child). a man (i mean child) who whould drop his wife for another woman (i mean tramp). if he'll do it to me he'll do it to her. the funny thing is, the last time i saw her mother, she was really upset about the way the stepsister was behaving (drunk at brother's wedding, making out with multiple guys, a real class act) and was distressed about her tendency to cause trouble and ruin family gatherings. i hope her mother is proud.
his dad probably said. "good job, son". he's headed for divorce number three from her mother. so her mother should be worried since the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
his mother is really upset about the divorce and truly does not like the girlfriend/stepsister/skank. i had to tell her about the divorce because he was too chicken shit to tell his own parents (and his father's first reaction was "does this have anything to do with [stepsister"> ?", not "of course, [dumpling"> is hell on wheels" very telling). but his mother called him and told him that if he had anything going on with her it was wrong and disgusting. he said that he was no longer going to live his life to please others, that is how he ended up married to me. he was going to please himself, no matter what his mamma thinks. she is no longer speaking to me, she said that she needed to take his side. nice. sold out by him and his mother (we had a very close relationship).
Re: still can't control my impulses! so i'll post. Dharma Bum: I'll say it again, dumpling. Run, don't walk, away from this family! Everyone always says the cliche "you'll be better off when the hurt goes away..." but you'll be WAAYYY better off! Stay strong!
Re: still can't control my impulses! so i'll post. flyaway: I'm with Dharma! Run, Dumpling, RUN! lol
I'm sorry that this is making you angry.....but use that emotion to get some distance between you and the nearest member of that family!
You sooooo deserve better.
Flyaway
Re: still can't control my impulses! so i'll post. Debbie: I have to agree HIS family does sound like it belongs on Jerry Springer not you. You are just the that married into the crazy family. I hope for your sake you do not have any children/ Also it is best you did not call because I believe men like that do things to piss you off on purpose because they want to feel they still control you. I would run to a lawyer also because he has already spent a lot of your marital money on the tramp. You need to get away from that family as fast as you can.
I am sorry for you situation, but try not to let him bring you down, I know it is hard it is something I work with everyday.
Debbie
