Am I a leper on ojar? Justgothen: I don't understand, I asked for help. Nobody responded. My stbx is down the street RIGHT NOW with his floozy. I want to go there and beat them both. I need help. Anybody understand this?? I don't want to do anything stupid.
Re: Am I a leper on ojar? AloneandCold: No, no leapers. Let me go check your other thread. trust me if no one answered it was not intentionally to ignore you.
Re: Am I a leper on ojar? SunnyFlower: No!
I'm sure it's not intentional!
As for immediate advice-
Do you have kids that can give you strength? (I'm sorry if you've mentioned having/not having them in recent posts...I just recently started becomming an active member on this board again...) I know SO MANY TIMES I've wanted to do somehting irrational, act on my angry feelings, and then I'd think about my baby and keep a level head for my son's sake...
Take a deep breath. BREATHE and remove yourself from the situation for a moment...
Re: Am I a leper on ojar? Justgothen: Thanks for the advice. I did it anyway. I didn't beat anyone to a pulp, but I confronted them. It was ugly. I called her a floozy. I don't know that I regret it though. He just keeps lying through his teeth. I walk in and he's sitting there laughing with his arm around her...yet he tells me she's just a friend. Does he think I am stupid? I'm not signing the settlement agreement. I am going for blood. If only he was honest...
Re: Am I a leper on ojar? SunnyFlower: Feeling any better now? :-[
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