Re: Am I a leper on ojar? JimB: [quote author=Justgothen link=topic=20023.msg185330#msg185330 date=1128749735">
I don't want to do anything stupid.
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Then don't do anything stupid. You know what you might do that would be stupid, and you have the power to decide not to do it.
Violence would create more problems than it solved, and unless you're a sociopath, it wouldn't make you feel better. Beat the snot out of your pillow instead. Run around the block until you're exhausted. Have a stiff drink (just one). Then think about it in the morning.
Re: Am I a leper on ojar? biamiyumba: Say to yourself you'll do it tomorrow. When tomorrow comes and you still feel like that say to yourself you'll do it tomorrow. This one of the few situations in which procrastination is a good thing. Eventually you'll realize that they are just NOT worth the effort and YOU ARE!
Re: Am I a leper on ojar? Justgothen: Thanks for posting. I did confront them last night, but I didn't hurt anyone or do anything really stupid. I don't care anymore. I am tired of the lies. I emailed him today and told him that I will be getting a lawyer on Monday. I truly never want to see him again.
Something really cool happened while I was talking to him, though. Some girl came out of the beer garden (where they were when I confronted him) and she says to me (outloud so everyone can hear) "Girl, you are so much prettier than that lady. She has nothing on you. You don't need this loser". She was drunk and her boyfriend was pulling her away, but it felt good. And he heard it. It's silly, but it made me feel better. I still hate that smug bastard.
Re: Am I a leper on ojar? lost enigma: I am happy to hear that you feel better about it. The fact that he can parade her infront of you, shows no class. Just live your life, and he will get his. It's called karma
Re: Am I a leper on ojar? Lumpy: Put that energy into the legal fight. Don't do anything that he can come back and use in court. Try and take the high road. Hit him where it counts. In the pocketbook!
