Re: Friends & Saturday's jadedangel: [color=navy"> Debbie .. I hope things get better. Weekends in general are worse -- partially coz you have nothing else to focus on (from my end of things). Time slows down .. your supposed to relax and all it really does i make you think more ... and remember the loss of hopes and dreams.
Your not a failure -- look at the other parts of your life to realize that. Yeah, it seems like your friends have more and don't want to be bothered .. but they are your friends -- and should realize when you need them. I am sure they want to be there for you.
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Re: Friends & Saturday's Dire Wolf: Im so sorry you have had to endure such a man in your life. Nobody deserves to be treated like that. The "keep busy" advice is easier said than done for me considering I can't seem to find much enjoyment in the things I used to love to do. I've been trying to do new things that have no memories attached to my STBX. The weekends arn't so bad for me cause she had always worked weekends and I spent time with the kids so nothing has changed there. However, the rest of the week I find myself bored out of my mind. My advice is to try and do new things that may not be exactly you to see if you can find a thing or two that can put that joy back in your life and and have no memory attached to him. Just my two cents. Chin up sweetie, tomorrow keeps coming and tomorrow is brighter without that abuse in your life.
DW
