Re: What do you consider great sex? falling: What would you consider great sex?
Any sex that involces me and someone else.
Kidding aside, I've never had great sex with one night stands. For me great sex is not only a physical bonding, but something that creates an emotional connection. And yes, with that being said I haven't had a lot of partners. My sex life has been totally based on quality not quantity. Something my roommates and most other male friends can not comprehend.
Re: What do you consider great sex? Blueyes424: Great sex......that's a GOOD question.......
I have to say that I agree with Whiskey Girl....Love makes sex great. It's not a matter of size or skill or how many partners you've had.....it's about the love that's behind all of that.
Now granted, the motion of the ocean is important.....the length of time can be important too......sometimes the longer the better, sometimes the shorter the better.
I personally happen to like the cuddly after affection too......Sex is the utmost way to show your love for someone......at least in my eyes. And when you give yourself to the person that you love, if the love is strong enough, no matter how many people you've been with before, it will ALWAYS feel like the first time.
Re: What do you consider great sex? hudson: Great sex happens when you both really want it, when the emotional connection is strong, and when the passion is high.
Great sex to me means close, sweaty, lots of kissing, passionate, undistracted, caught up in the exctasy sex. When two people are so into each other at that moment that they just want more and can't get enough. I think it takes love to have true great sex because love is the spark that sets the fire.
Re: What do you consider great sex? jillieb44: The best sex I've had has been with someone I haven't had an emotional connection with but electric chemistry. Maybe because we both found each other totally hot? And he was a great kisser? (never had that before).
I dunno. I guess if there was love in this relationship that would make it even better. Don't know.
Jillie
Re: What do you consider great sex? Samarra: Great sex to me, oddly enough. happened in my last relationship....where both love and chemistry were present.
I need to be in a relationship with someone who knows me and my body well enough to know how and where to touch me to turn me on. The feeling of being secure enough to really "let go" in every sense comes with time and trust.
One night stands....I don't and won't indulge in. Nothing about being with a stranger just because I'm incredibly attracted to him does it for me......it works for some people......but I don't find anything about it appealing.
That kind of hot...passioanate...lust-driven sex can also happen and usually does...with someone you've spent some time with also.
The key for long-term relationships is not to let things get stale.
That being said.....the most mind-blowing sex I ever had was with my xb after being together for about a year. He knew exactly what to do to take me over the edge.
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