Re: new/hurting/etc. bigblue: hello accounting girl:
welcome to ojar.. whatever you are feeling is OK. everyone has a different way of dealing with stress and sadness... With time, you will soften up inside, when it is time...
I am a person of a lot of words, but when it comes to your situation I don't know what to say. I was abused as a child, and when a man cannot hold his sexual tension towards family members I get so upset...
Don't think about him as much as you can. All you can control is yourself... It will take time and maybe God has given you this so you can become stronger.
Someone told me that what you are hearing and feeling is in your mind. It might have nothing to do with the other person... also look in the mirror and tell yourself, "i am the most important person in this world". which is true. we live in our world, and if we are not here, than there is no world. thinking you are the most important person in the world, will avoid certain "guilt" trips and "settling for less"...be strong for your daughter and give her a big hug for me.
blue
