Re: new/hurting/etc. acctinggirl: Thanks for letting me vent on you guys. I does feel good to get it out. I just trying to put all my energy in our daughter and my work. I have seen a few posts about weekends being hard, and I can relate to that. I have been going in to work with my boss on Sundays when I dont have my daughter, to keep my mind off things. Thanks again
Re: new/hurting/etc. AfterMath: Welcome accounting girl. We are all here for you. Can't really add anything to what's been said already, but wanted to send you a big ((((((HUG))))!
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Re: new/hurting/etc. jadedangel: [color=navy"> Same thing from me ---- Welcome to Ojar.
And ... it kinda shows your exh character that he could do that -- He isn't worth your time. I know you hurt, but seriously -- that is messed up of him. Hang in there -- and vent away .. anytime ;) [/color">
Re: new/hurting/etc. hardened_heart1970: hello acct. welcome to "our" place, where you can get good help. ive been in the cheating situation, my ex wife cheated with my exbest friend.
like said, once a cheater, always a cheater. stay strong, and yet, even though you may feel you love him, we can not allow ourselves to be walked all over, with no remorse about it..
this will make it easier on you to
1- cease contact other than to talk about your kid, or get a contact person, that all info can be relayed through(i do the contact person, and it has made me heal 100 times faster)
2- make him drive to get his kid. he moved. this means he is still controlling you, and eventually you will have to make a stand to move on.
3-come here, vent, post and let it all out, as many times as you need to....
let us know how you are..........thanks and good luck
Re: new/hurting/etc. changed4ever: Ditto to what smokin' said. Welcome to OJAR, it's a great place, sometimes I feel like it's the only place you can really be honest, no matter how crazy you may sound. You're in a bad place now, but it will get better.
BIG HUGS
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