Re: I hate being single lexi1012: There are lots of great things about being single, though! After years of marriage (quite possibly several bad years) it is so exciting to think about all the possibilities! At first, I was too sad to even imagine meeting anyone else, but that all changes when you meet someone you like. It's so great at the beginning when you both are on your best behaviour and everything is new and exciting and that first kiss.....
But you have to give yourself time. Allow yourself to grieve and feel bad and know that it is completely normal. You will meet someone else, you will be happy again.
Re: I hate being single sparks: Im happy now. Just a little lonely and Im at a place that I really dont want another man in my life. I am enjoying making decisions without having to get somebody elses input.
But I do miss the companionship
Re: I hate being single callaway: I can't imagine right now to be with someone else. This scares me, is it always going to be like this. When do you get ready for someone new? I don't want to live the rest of my life alone. It just would feel so wrong to hug or kiss someone else than my x.
Re: I hate being single Tarheel: My problem is sorta the same one that new married couples run into: the honeymoon's over.
After I served her papers and had her kicked out legally, I had something to prove. I had to prove that I could raise a two year old little girl BY MYSELF. I had to prove I could maintain a stable environment for her. It was critical for me to do all of that so i would have a legitimate shot at custody when that day came around. The court date came, I got custody. The divorce went final, and I had everything I wanted out of it. I've proved myself, but now what? I mean, I've done (and do) all the things I'm now able to do because I'm not tied down by the wife. But even those things get old after a while. My "single" routine has set in.
I liked the married routine so much better.
Re: I hate being single Beachchick: I'm dating right now....and it's sucks. I met one guy I life, but he and I can't get it together.
My husband was a jerk, and it was unhealthy. I blew it, and miss the relationship. I miss him.
What I hate even more, is when someone tells me "One day you will be happy".
That day will never come...and I believe it's a bunch of shit. I hate this...and I hate people even more for talking about "Karma", "or one day he will get his". He won't get his. I won't get mine.
My biggest fear in life, is I will never be happy again. I don't remember what it feels like.
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