Re: I hate being single
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Re: I hate being single getreal: [quote author=sparks link=topic=20065.msg185690#msg185690 date=1128869593">
Unfortunatley, yes.  I am still very much in love with my x.  That cant be good
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I feel you....life ainīt easy and you will find more ??? than answers.
Re: I hate being single alonewith2: I feel the same way.  I never wanted to date again....and I don't like any of the available men in my area......made me hate him even more!!

It sucks, and I don't really have any advice since I'm still at that point.  I just wanted to let you know that you weren't alone in your thoughts!


Re: I hate being single greg41: I'm here to say the basicly the same as alonewith2 and if it will make you feel any better...I'm a guy and my wife did the same thing. I really wanted to work things out and live up to the vows we took. "For better or for worse" means just that. Even though she was a selfish, self centered, needy wench, I wanted to work through ours and her issues, but she's not willing to do the same.

I hate being single, I hate going to the clubs, metting people on-line and going on those f!@#ing blind dates my friends are trying to send me on.

My favorite part of a relationship starts 6 months after I get past the begining part.

I did go out to a club lastnight and have a good conversation with a hottie but I couldn't ask her for her phone number...I just wasn't ready.

Good lusck and you are NOT alone!
Re: I hate being single PnR: I know how you feel I don't enjoy being single either. It's funny when I met my x I thought I had been through the worst of my relationship problems. I never would have got into another relationship if I knew it would end less than 2 years later and he would cause me more pain than anyone before.

I don't like this dating thing. To many rules. It's really difficult to meet people where I live and there just seems to be no decent men here.
Re: I hate being single Mart: Hi,

I do not enjoy dating at all.  I never did.  I like being in a relationship. 

No prospects.... same here.  Where I live, the male/female ratio is out of wack : 8 women for 1 man.  Being a woman, is not an advantage here.  Everyone knows single women but most do not know any single men.  My best friend when I was a child has been separated for 6 months from his wife.  Not yet divorced.  SInce the beginning of his break up, he has been receiving an average of 8 e-mails per day from different women who want to meet him (he is not online dating).  He was married but has no children.  So, he is a good prospect for women in their late twenties or in their thirties.  The men here can pick and choose!  It makes it harder for me, because my ex is probably receiving the same amount, if not more, of          e-mails from women.  Karma will not be visiting my ex!  He will be in the Garden of Eden!       

[quote"> My favorite part of a relationship starts 6 months after I get past the begining part[/quote">

I feel the same way.  I always said that I wish I could fast forward my relationships into 6 months. 

Hang in there sparks.  I am sure you will not stay single for ever!

Mart


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