Re: She keeps calling and e mailing and msn bigblue: THR:
I read your previous posts... and I am wondering, was your wife abused as a child?
See unfortunately I am... But I worked on it for years... I always found boyfriends who were abusive until my husband. (not physically, at least emotionally).
One of my professors one time told me that "children who are abused always look for abusive relationships. Their self worth is gone"
See I am a very pretty and strong person. but most of the time, I have issues with trust, and receiving love... Just wondering, why she is going back to this abusive person?
also do you want to save this marriage, or just get the hell out? if so, block her e-mail, no contact, and move on... look forward, breath in, breath out.. both ways, it will be painful. pain will not go away until you fight your demons and find peace.
Re: She keeps calling and e mailing and msn thehitekrednek: Big Blue
You are right.
Decision is made, it is over!
I could never take her back after this. I would just be fooling myself, as I have been all along.
I hope that when he hits her again, and he will that I will be strong enough to deal with it properly.
I have contacted a good friend who lives close to them, he will help her when she calls me.
I know I shouldn't care but I do and have taken the steps I need too.
thr
Re: She keeps calling and e mailing and msn Older Guy: Have you told her in no uncertain terms to not contact you ? Maybe she needs to hear that.
Re: She keeps calling and e mailing and msn thehitekrednek: Yup, told her yesterday
So far so good
thr
