Re: Is it normal for kids to seem happier after split??? jillieb44: Cold fish.
Yeah.
That about sums it up.
What was it somebody said on the great sex thread? That great sex is integral to a great marriage. Hmm. Never had that. Go figure.
Jillie
Re: Is it normal for kids to seem happier after split??? in_search_of: I would bet that they are reacting to the lack of tension in the house. I would bet that before the split and during the process thereof, that the house was tense, and no matter what the reason for the split and the age of the kids the tension will make them cranky. Heck, my house was tense to the point where my cats were tense during the time we were splitting up!
Re: Is it normal for kids to seem happier after split??? changed4ever: Thanks for your support, but now I have another problem. The girls just got back from visitation and my 6 year old just told me that she slept in between her dad and his girlfriend. I'm losing it. I explained to her that I don't want her to do that anymore. I think that I am going to kill him and his stupid whore.
Re: Is it normal for kids to seem happier after split??? in_search_of: I can't blame you, I would not be okay with that.
Have the two of you talked about what the procedure is for introducing the kids to new people in your life, having that person sleep over etc?
Re: Is it normal for kids to seem happier after split??? changed4ever: Initially his girlfriend was not allowed to be around the kids even though they lived together, but after a couple of months he asked if she could hang out with the kids as a friend. Well, you can see where that got me, the kids initially met her behind my back. Keep in mind that this is the same girl that he cheated on me with. He had promised that when the kids slept over, either she wouldn't be there or one of them would sleep on the couch. As you can guess we had a huge blowout over my 6 year old in bed with them, but honestly I don't know what to do. My kids love him to death and apparently they like the girlfriend a lot too. My attorney say that we can cut off sleepover visitaion till the divorce is over, but aren't I just prolonging the inevitable. I don't know what to do????
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