im ok.....but moonshine: i am doing ok without my ex who left me for another man. its a big shot to the ego, but what can you do....
this is my dilemma, and you can tell me if im weird cause of it, let me know if it is....
i really want to look good for when i see my ex. when she left me, she noted on how skinny i was (thanks alot..first you run to another man, now you want to call me skinny.) i used to be excellent shape, an athlete. over the course of time, not only my life, but my body went down the drain. her new guy is even skinner :S
but anyways, i want to send her a message by getting back to my old self, the one who she couldnt keep her hands off of.
i guess the main thing is, im really doing it to prove to HER, and no for my self. it seems like i can move on as soon as i leave on some type of 'good note', even if tis non vertabl. is this like totally weird or something, and even though its been a year, it seems like this is one of the things that will help me :S:S
Re: im ok.....but moonshine: ps...i wouldnt ever go back to her....but do they ever have some type of regret even...? maybe a 'what if'..?
Re: im ok.....but AloneandCold: I think it is completely normal to feel like that. Its almost wanting to make them regret leaving you maybe? I don't know, but I do know it is pretty common. If it will help you get over her, go for it. At least in the long run it is healthy for you.
Re: im ok.....but jadedangel: [quote author=moonshine link=topic=20088.msg185910#msg185910 date=1128896522"> i guess the main thing is, im really doing it to prove to HER, and no for my self. it seems like i can move on as soon as i leave on some type of 'good note', even if tis non vertabl. is this like totally weird or something, and even though its been a year, it seems like this is one of the things that will help me :S:S
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[color=navy"> Maybe proving it to her .... is for you ;) ... I think you should do anything that will help you in the long run. It's not totally wierd -- you have to think of yourself and what is going to get you healed ...[/color">
Re: im ok.....but changed4ever: I don't think that it's weird at all. I think it's probably just human nature. I did the same thing for a while but I don't do it anymore. Eventually you get to a place where there opinion doesn't matter anymore.
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