Re: im ok.....but alonewith2: [quote author=changed4ever link=topic=20088.msg185953#msg185953 date=1128899053">
I don't think that it's weird at all. I think it's probably just human nature. I did the same thing for a while but I don't do it anymore. Eventually you get to a place where there opinion doesn't matter anymore.
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You took the words out of my mouth. In the beginning I always did things wondering what he would think...now I just do.
If this is what you feel will help you, then go for it. Even if you feel you are doing it for her and not you....it will still help you in the long run. It's human nature to feel better when you are healthy.... ;)
Re: im ok.....but fiona: You have my blessing. I think no matter the reason why we do things, eventually you do something long enough and it becomes a habit- a part or you. Fortunately in your case it is something that will help you physically and mentally (otherwise no blessing for you). You may be disappointed if in the long run she does not respond to your changes, however, with them being positive changes, they really will be for you and that's all that matters.
