Re: The silence is killing me jadedangel: [color=navy"> Almost every person on this site --- okay I may be generalizing ---- but ....I would say most of us -- do things that continually hurt us -- because we love the other person and we miss things -- how they were and what they were. Just because you hurt him .. doesn't mean he didn't absolutely love things before you did that. Yes ... someone can be that confused --- it isn't that abnormal at all. [/color">
Re: The silence is killing me AloneandCold: Yes its very easy for someone to be that confused. He could be that scared and coming around anyway because people can be really conflicted in their minds.
Re: The silence is killing me Just_Me: People keep telling me that he is confused. Could someone be that confused? If he is that scared about me hurting him why would he be coming around in the first place?
And he has gone without me telling him how much I love him and want to be with him, he went 5 months without it. The last time we were talking he said "I bet you never mention me to anyone, like I never existed" So if he wants to be mentioned why is he playing the silent game when I want to make things right?
Re: The silence is killing me Just_Me: wow I never thought about it that way.
I guess I don't understand because I don't think I could ever be that confused when it comes to him. I love him so much and really want to be with him. I just don't understand how you could not be with someone that you really love; I just thought that all the other stuff went out the window when you really love someone.
I guess I should be more understanding being that I was the first one to hurt him. When we broke up he told me that he felt I never loved him and I that he would never be with me again, he also said he never wanted to talk to me again, but we're talking now.
I'm just as confused as him I guess.
Re: The silence is killing me jadedangel: [quote author=Just_Me link=topic=20090.msg185955#msg185955 date=1128899561">
I just don't understand how you could not be with someone that you really love; I just thought that all the other stuff went out the window when you really love someone.
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[color=navy"> I think ... alot of us were mislead by this thinking .... I know I was.[/color">
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