I'm having a bad night changed4ever: The kids just came home from their weekend visit with their dad and they are so happy. My 6 year old tell me voluntarily that she slept with dad and his girlfriend. This is the girlfriend that he cheated on me with. I immediately call him and tell him that his visitation is over until the court orders it. His reply " I knew you were going to get mad". Then "Have a good night" Oh my god, what the hell is wrong with him. Please I'm crying so hard, someone tell me what to do. I just hired an attorney to file the divorce last week.
Re: I'm having a bad night thehitekrednek: Your stronger then you know
Repating this gets me through my bad spells.
That and coming here.
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Re: I'm having a bad night hardened_heart1970: hello. im sorry.... im an old ojar guy......
first, make sure you talk to your lawyer about this, because there is a law in most states, that you cannot keep the kids from their dad..
secondly, im with you on the ethical part of your ex behaviour. my ex did the same exact thing, and probably still does, and there is nothing we can do about it, unless the f**k in front of the kids. does it make it ok? no.
thirdly, remember this saying, when your ex does something totally stupid, that doesnt physically harm the kids.
"I ONLY HAVE THE POWER, TO CHANGE MYSELF"
this is a very down time, for you, and yes, it will get better. if you want to know anything, read my posts. i have been through almost everything, and its all happened to me..
NO CONTACT really works awesome. when they are there, then there is no way to get over them fast..... and post more.........well help you....
