Re: The Beginning of the REST of MY Life... Erin: Does it make sense? Yes and no.
I'm not wanting to be the downer here, but like OG said, be ready to fall down again. It may not be anywhere near as low as you have been and only last for a moment compared to the rest.
Just remember with all the highs lows come as well.
You really sound like you are on a great new path and will be able to deal with anything that comes your way!
Good luck!
Re: The Beginning of the REST of MY Life... KdUb: [quote author=spinningincircles link=topic=20106.msg186298#msg186298 date=1128956219">
Does it make sense? Yes and no.
I'm not wanting to be the downer here, but like OG said, be ready to fall down again. It may not be anywhere near as low as you have been and only last for a moment compared to the rest.
Just remember with all the highs lows come as well.
You really sound like you are on a great new path and will be able to deal with anything that comes your way!
Good luck!
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I will agree with you both - that's why I said that I expect some tough days ahead. I mean, I can't just shake off 8 years of love in 2 months. I do realize that guys. If I didn't, you're right, I'd fall down one day and feel like I couldn't pick up the pieces or that my theory was shattered.
I think it will be closer to what you said spinning - that the lows I will feel prolly won't be near as low as the lows I have been feeling. I have using my support system to help me through the lows. Yesterday was an up and down day but I just kept reminding myself that I am worth more than this and deserve to be happy. It really helped me.
Re: The Beginning of the REST of MY Life... cyncyn_22: Wow Kd, you really are an inspiration to all of us who've been hurt. You have such a positive outlook and that's pretty amazing considering that you've been through hell and back with your ex. Keep up the positive vibes!
As for me, it's been a roller coaster. I can definately identify with the "1 step forward, 2 steps back" thing. One day, I feel like I want to hang out with my ex and there are other days when I just want to ring his neck! Then there are days when I just feel sad or alone, and those are the days that really torture me to death.
Just thought I'd give everybody a little update (been busy the last few days).
cyncyn_22
Re: The Beginning of the REST of MY Life... KdUb: Thanks for sharing - you'll get over him and move on. WE ALL WILL! I can't wait for the day when I get through the ENTIRE day and not think about her ONE SINGLE TIME! It took me a few years w/ my previous gf of 5 yrs. but I got there. It's a great feeling.
Keegan
Re: The Beginning of the REST of MY Life... changed4ever: I'm so happy for you. You really turned this around and took control of your own life and happiness. Good luck to you.
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