Being in love Pumpkin: Hey, I don't post much, but wanted to just say that I think I am in love with someone who has shown interest in me, too, but doesn't want to date me until divorce is over (which could be another year or so). I am upset by this and kind of feel like he is stringing me along sometimes. It's the first time I have felt that I am in love, thinking about him constantly....it's just awful. I really don't like being in love and it sucks :( I am thinking of not going to church anymore and avoiding him so that it can be one of those "out of sight, out of mind" things, but don't know. I don't think he is "waiting for me", and told me that he doesn't expect me to "wait" for him. I know that there is attraction and maybe feelings there on his part, so I don't know what to do.
I feel so crazed about this guy and can't get him out of my mind. Even though I haven't had that much opportunity to get to know him super well, we have kissed, and it is just the most amazing thing. Anyway, I don't know what to do about this and wanted some opinions. It is so hard to see him or talk to him that I want to avoid him at this point since I know it will be a long while for my divorce to be complete. I don't want to avoid him and disappear, however, b/c I want an opportunity to go out with him and stuff if that's what he still wants after the divorce is over. I worry he will find someone else by the time my divorce is final.....he is 34 years old and I am 28 about to be 29.....
-Pumpkin (crazy in love)
Re: Being in love WhiskeyGirl: Pumpkin....that sucks!
I'm sorry girl but I would move on. If he was that into you he would either wait for you or adjust his "rules" a bit...mabey no sex til you are divorced or something but to not want to even date you until its final is a little fishy. I don't know I dont go to church...does yours frown on stuff like that? How long have you been seperated? how long have you known this guy? Are you sure its love and not just a crush?
