Re: New here my bf dissapeared last week my sad tale KdUb: Stick with us - we'll be here for you. Be strong and stick to your guns. It's hard as hell but you gotta look forward, not back.
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Keegan
Re: New here my bf dissapeared last week my sad tale brynnemichele: Thank-you for the support everyone. I've been sort of lurking on this board for a few months and decided to register when I read Lost Enigma's story yesterday of being abruptly dumped. I am scared because I think deep down I believe that in a week, month, whatever, he will try to come creeping back to me with his, "I was confused," excuse. I want this to be it. Logically I know that this is not the end of the world and I deserve better. But my relationship with him is the only one I've ever known and I've given him three years of my life. I guess that's three years of willingly living in denial b/c it was better than being alone. My sister had something horrible happen to her early this year. She got married in Sept. '04 and by April her husband was cheating on her with a stripper and destroying their credit. She kicked him to the curb and hasn't looked back, after a five year relationship. Why can't I be like that? I have given him so many chances he never deserved. I swear to god I'm going crazy here. But I will continue to post for sure, and maybe at this time next year I can be on her telling people it really does get better.
Re: New here my bf dissapeared last week my sad tale bigblue: BE STRONG!!!! I was young and in love once... and let my boyfriend in college use me as a doormat. I married a much much nicer man... now I am going through a break up, but nothing disrespectful. I married a nice man... it is just that we grew apart (I think)
shortly, think about what advice you would give to a close friend if they were in a similar situation. unfortunately, most of us cannot stop loving someone who tell us that they love us and we believe in them. then we love them back hoping "love" will help them change...
the person you are describing has issues. everyone does. but some of us work on them some of us don't. he can go from one girl to the other, blaming the girl left behind. and not finding any fault in himself... these types of people never grow, or mature. they are afraid of their fears and cannot face them. they pull you into it, in the name of love.
be strong... keep telling yourself you love your life and you are not going to waste it.
blue
Re: New here my bf dissapeared last week my sad tale getreal: Seriously....is a booty call worth the way you will feel AFTER......he is a loser and a bad one at that....MOVE ON
