Re::( Safetykc: Wow...Thank you everyone...No biggie bringing up old news lumpy...
I appreciate everyone's kind word's but this was like ages ago, A whole month and a half...lifetimes...jesus...ok whew...sorry, flashback there.
Snoopy, she is devoid of class...Besides the whole OM at work thing she had a new boyfriend she took to the company xmas party back in December the week we got divorced...A lot of people at work didn't even know we had split up, it had only been a few months..some of my team saw her there hanging on him and said even they felt a little sick...she really doesn't care about appearances and I have learned to deal...
Hell when I had to call her apartment a month ago to get some things she tok that belonged to me, it didn't even phase me that her answering machine has his, her, and all 5 kids on it as if they are living together which I think they are...no biggie...blah
I guess she expects me to be happy for her, apparantly this is the love of her life and as he told her..I don't care about you're past and they have both been spending the last 10 years preparing to meet each other...well...and being married and having kids with other people...LOL
Ok, enough of a trip down memory lane for me...
gottta go...
Re::( heylaura: So much good advice for you took place last night while I was trying to sleep after crying me eyes out with getting more angry and hurt when I spoke with my husband. I could try to add, but it looks like you are past that emotional dip in the roller coaster. However, I did want to offer my support. You are truly amazing! How anyone could stay sane being in the same building with a spouse that was acting like that, is simply amazing. Hang in there Safety. You'll be so much better off when you get to your new position and don't have to put up with her sh-- as often.
Big hugs.
HL
Re::( ChristyM: Safety, Safety he's our man
If he can't do it
Nobody can! Gooooooo Safety!!!!!!!!!
You're the beast....errrrr.......I mean BEST! Hang in there!
Christy
Re::( PiscesGoddess: Safety- Christy's right..you are the man.. if you cant do it no one can.. :P I would get up and do a cheer but you do still have my pom pons :-*
I cant say anything I havent already said.. over the past..Lord..how many months now? tee hee.. ;)
You are one of the strongest, bravest men I have ever met.. your capacity to love and care takes my breath away on a daily basis. to go through what you did with the divine miss M.. Queen of sleestackia.. You deserve some sort of sainthood... ::)
She never deserved you..or your heart.. but..I know you are past it now..with more grace and strength than before.. and someday..she will realize what she lost... then again some of her feeble attempts with you..I think she already does... Anyway..this is turning out to be like one of your famous rambles.. ;) so I will go now.. I just wanted to show my support..here on ojar...You know I think you are the best...and ...well... thats all Im gonna say about that :-X
Continued strength and love to you... ;)
Your number 1 fan.. (not the break your legs kind...hee hee)
Pisces Goddess :-*
