Re:I really need your help today. Brian75034: HavingFun,
its perfectly normal to have those feelings and cry again. Heck, I get that way too and my girlfriend broke down last week when she had to talk to her ex about finally resolving the house issue- and that was 3 years ago!!
BUT, as long as you know you can never go back to him and that there was a reason you two go divorced, then youll be just fine.
B
Re:I really need your help today. Jernigan: HavingFun,
I'd be more worried about a person if they didn't have these emotions occasionally. It shows you were emotionally-invested in the marriage, and we're all bound to feel the residual effects of that now and then. I think to feel as you have is more common than not, actually, no matter how much time has elapsed. Here's to hoping you feel better soon!
Re:I really need your help today. wakepner: Thank you for your help. I was feeling much better last evening, luckily he has always pulled his crap on the day of therapy. He must have some internal clock to know when it is!
We actually went back and forth on email a couple of times and I was really pleased with what he said. He gave me some information that I have never had and it really put me at peace. He also said that the situation was something he created so it was nice to hear he was taking responsibility. Just a reminder...he has never shared with me why he did not want to be married. So this information would have been great 15 months ago but I am happy to take it now.
So that is the update. Thank you again...
On another note, I signed up for my first marathon today and start training on Saturday. WAHOO! ;D
Re:I really need your help today. wakepner: Funny...he made a donation to my marathon today. Works for me!
