Outta here :) galil: Well guys and gals all is finished as far as my end anyway.
I have sold my house and I am finaly moving and have everything ready to go to Florida. We closed on the house last friday and I have to say it was kind of bitter sweet. I am happy to be done with that and feel good about not having that burdon keeping me in town anymore.
I will be headed out for my big move in a few more weeks. I am scared but excited all at the same time. I am one of these people that wants to be around my family all the time and a big mamas boy hehe. I habe never lived anywhere else but here and I am getting more scared the closer it is to when I leave.
I talked with my lawyer and told him I can no longer stay here and fight these legal issues with my ex anymore. he will have to take charge and do it all himself with me gone.
For those of you that know my story it looks like my legal issues will continue on for a long time to come.
My ex has this sick twisted mind and IMO has nothing better to do with her life than to sit around and dream up ways to keep me around even if it is in a negative way.
She told me not long ago that she wants this over as much as me but last week I come to find out that in order for her to end it now she wants another 10 grand from me. There comes a point when all her actions are on the borderline of insane.
needless to say I have given her so much more than the court would have ever given her had we gone to trial just for the sake of moving on. I dont have that kind of money and quite honestly I dont think I did anything wrong to deserve this.
Anyay my lawyer is just as fed up as me and even though I never wanted to do this it is time for us to go on the offensive.
there have been numerous cases of ex spouses suing there EXs for cheating on them and causing them emotionial stress. My lawyer believes we have a very good case to go after her for the emotional stress she put me thru and for the medical debt I built up from trying to get over all she did to me. Not only that he is also going ahead and filing suit against her for all the check forgeries as well.
I am not sure if we will win anything but she wronged me and I have every right to go after her for the damage she has done to me. Bottom line is this however.
I am moving and will have little to do with any of this. I wanted closure on this phase of my life but it is painfully obvious that she will never let me have my closure. So the way we look at it is if in fact I am still going to have to go thru all of this I mine as well go after her for all the things she has done to mae and caused me to go thru.
For those of you that were in fact cheated on I will tell you this. Even though your state may be no fault state, there are hundreds of cases where Exs have sued and won large settllements for spouses that behaved in such a way.
like I said I am still moving on with my life guys and hate to do this but I feel like I have no choice in the matter.
Anyway I will talk at you all very soon once I get to my new home and maybe I will be able to make plans to see some of you when I do some cross country flights ;D
Re:Outta here :) Jernigan: Good luck and best wishes, Galil. It's good to see you putting a positive foot forward. To where in Florida will you be moving? Tampa here!
Re:Outta here :) galil: Dude we have to hook up man and have a few beers.
I will be living in Vero Beach and my flight school will be in Port St. Lucie.
Anyway I will give you a shot when I get down there. I hope to have Old Shoes down thsi summer as well maybe we can all take one of our twin engines to Nassaus for the weekend. I may let you fly hehe as long as you promiss not to kill us ;D
Re:Outta here :) EZ: Galil,
best wishes and best of luck.
you are a stand up guy :)
peace and love always
Re:Outta here :) JimB: I got it bud.
I'll come down in October and we'll fly to the DR and crash Newman's wedding. 8)
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