tell me what u think kimieb: my exboyfriend and i had the fairy tale everyone dreams about. we grew up together and fell in love. everyone was always saying how lucky we were, and we knew we were lucky. then this past july, i decided to leave my job at a dance studio where i had been for 17 years of my life. i'm only 20 years old so i started there when i was 3yrs old. i grew up there and this was a life changing event. so i flipped out, i took so much anger out on AJ(my ex) and he couldn't take it. his grandfather, who he is very close to, is dying and he couldn't deal with the pressure of 2 problems. so we fought and he told me he couldn't do this anymore and that i couldn't get another chance. what he meant by another chance i don't know cuz i've never been like this before. soon he agreed to take a week to chill and i agreed to not contact him. the first day of his week this boy named Eddie finds me online. i have never heard of him and have never met him but he claims to be aj's friend. so i found out more about him, and he told me that he talked to aj about me and aj said that he's happy to be rid of me because i'm a psycho bitch who he hates. so of course, i call aj to defend myself and find out why he said that. aj wouldn't return my calls and eventually his mother told me over the phone that aj is feeling different now and that things sometimes don't work out. i went to confront aj and eddie was spying on us and hiding in the bushes! aj told me that he cares very much for me and wants to see me but didn't know if he could do "us." he promised to go online that night so we could talk. he never did. i found out it was because my friends left him awful messages that really hurt him. my friends later apologized. soon after, eddie started threatening me. he somehow got a hold of my unlisted home phone number and called my house at all hours of the night, he followed me and threatened to cut me up and destroy my life. i tried to contact aj to find out what was goin on but aj never responded. aj's mom told me aj had nothing to do with this and he's very upset about the eddie situation. i went to the police and there's nothing they can do. so i haven't heard from the love of my life in 2 months and i don't know what to think of this. i'm miserable, my life seems to have no meaning. does he just need time, is there still a chance for us, or does he really hate me for some reason? what do i do to make this ok? any answers please!!!??
Re: tell me what u think lost enigma: this sounds really really bizarre... I know my series of events was fishy, but this is out there.
Have u spoken to Eddie in person?
If not, this seems pretty childish
Re: tell me what u think jadedangel: [color=navy"> Well .. your right -- talking to AJ without interference will be the biggest thing. Communication seems mumbled between you two -- until you can .. things are sorta bound.
But .... sorry ... who the hell is Eddie .. and why the hell is he even involved? Maybe you should have your friends apologize for sending it ... he probably thinks you had some intent in it --- like 'eddie' ... does for him.
I have to agree ... sounds like a bit of a aggravating line of fishy events.[/color">
