All his money BONILLAK: Can the courts take every penny someone makes? My dh is saying they can't. I'm saying if child support, alimony and 50% of daycare is his whole check then yes the courts can take it.
Also if I can find out through an investigator that he is in fact living with a female and she in fact helped ruin the marriage can people still sue the other party involved? I ask this because he is aggravating me to no end with his complete lies to his lawyer and if I can do this I will just to prove me right/him wrong and make this divorce stretch out longer because I need to keep health insurance until I can find decent employment and there is no way the courts will make him pay Cobra on top of already needing his whole check for just the basics...plus I found out today that my 8yr old needs orthodontic work which he said will be too bad because he won't be able to afford it so no judge is going to order him to pay that too or even a percentage of that.
Re: All his money unhappy: just to let you know--yes he has to pay 1/2 of the braces--you can get a court order.
but the court can not take all his money -there is a formula for every state.
Re: All his money in_search_of: I really doubt that any court is going to take every penny that someone makes. And on top of that, the things that you are talking about are figured on a percent of income basis.
I suggest however, that before you go to court, you seek and atty and take a step back and take a deep breath, if you go in asking for every penny that he makes all you are going to end up looking is unreasonable.
Re: All his money BONILLAK: I am being reasonable. The child support on formula is $800 a mo. That is the only thing NJ has a formula for other than that its a percentage. And it will be 50/50 so half of childcare costs is 500 a mo. and if I get the $100 a week alimony that totals $1800 a month and he claims he only makes $1700 but yet when living here he managed to pay $3100 a month in bills as he always had another 1-2 jobs off the books. Now he is claiming he quit them when he left home. So yes just looking at the percentages its more than he makes even with no alimony its $1400 which would leave him $300. My lawyer said this is an example of a man who can't afford to get divorced and is going to live his life extremely poor unless he finds a rich rich women.lol Plus now we are looking at braces and such which he will have to pay 50% of and I'm sure other things. I just don't think he has seen how poor he is and how bad this is all going to be financially as he told me his lawyer said he will just have to pay child support and nothing more....he actually believes his dumb cluck lawyer.
Re: All his money in_search_of: sounds like both lawyers are posturing up and that in the end what you will have is something in the middle of what his lawyer is telling him and what your lawyer is telling you.
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