His girlfriend is going to babysit our kids... twobeautifulkids: I'm not thrilled about that. I am going on a Women of Faith conference next weekend and he'll have the kids from Thursday night to Sunday night. He's got some work commitment on Friday night so he's asked his girlfriend to watch the kids. While I know he didn't have to tell me, I'm still not thrilled about it. I have no reason to believe she's not a nice person, but it will be hard for me to focus on the conference knowing she's got them. Knowing that he'll come to pick them up and they'll be like a family in her house. :(
Re: His girlfriend is going to babysit our kids... Bree: OMG... that's tough. I already think of my baby at his girlfriend's and he's told me too much about her for me to EVER trust her. That's why I'm waiting until the baby's here to file for divorce. I want stipulations about him taking the baby off ...if that's possible. I don't really know, but I don't trust her one bit.
I'm sorry it's so hard. I would (and will, I'm sure) feel the same way!
Re: His girlfriend is going to babysit our kids... Suddenly Single: I don't have my own children so I can't imagine how hard that must be. I'm the girlfriend though who plays and hangs out with someone else's children. As long as you are a loving, attentive and compassionate mother - you have nothing to worry about. You are their mommy and always will be. She is not a replacement for you and probably is not trying to be. Your children love you and will always know they have you. The thing is that now they will have an additional person in their lives who will hopefully care for them and be good to them. Again, I can only imagine the feelings you are going through so I know these words may not help but hopefully they do a little.
HUGS to you. You'll be ok! If you are able to try to make it a point to call the kids friday night if you can.
SS
Re: His girlfriend is going to babysit our kids... twobeautifulkids: I have no reason to think she's not a nice person. Heck my ex used to refer to her as a surrogate mother of sorts (isn't that just gross?!) when he talked about her when they first started working together. I'm just not sure I'm ready to share my kids with her. Heck, we don't even have a separation agreement in place yet.
I don't think my ex will give me her phone number. When he first left, my SIL ended up calling and yelling at this woman after I got her number off the cell phone bill. I think he'd probably be afraid someone would try to yell at his poor honey again. ::) I will try to find out what time he'll be picking them up and call his cell phone then...if he even answers, which is a different vent all together.
Re: His girlfriend is going to babysit our kids... Suddenly Single: The kids will be at her house? Ummm......I wouldn't like that...you don't know where they are and can't contact them....that I would have issue with.
Why can't they be babysat at his house where there stuff is?
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