Where Do You Meet People??? packer_girl79: Hey Guys and Gals,
I've been dating a great guy, but I feel like I need to make sure it's not the dreaded "rebound" thing. My counselor has suggested dating other people and taking it really slow. After my divorce that sounds like a good idea. My only problem is where the hell do you meet decent guys?!? I don't want to meet one at the bar - we all know how great that is.
I have 2 kids and not a lot of free time. My other problem is that I *never* get asked out. Guys do not approach me. I've asked around about this, and they say that I'm intimidating and they think I'm out of their league. WTF???? So maybe some help from the guys on this one - why do you not approach pretty girls? We are nice I promise!!!!
So anyway, I don't know where to find people to try dating. I'm also not wanting to go out "looking". Argggh the frustration!!!! >:(
Re: Where Do You Meet People??? BigRunner493: the good looking girl in the bar is always a no-no!! either she is attached already or she's not looking to be picked up. i've been told that the jerks will do it but not the nice guys......don't know why this is, but i'm one of them that wouldn't.
try online with some of the dating services. you can kinda do it at your own pace. i think there was a thread on here recently about online dating.
br
Re: Where Do You Meet People??? bjs2005: I always go after the best looking ones. It's all double reverse psychology.
You know those hot Bud chicks that come and do promos etc? Most people say, don't hit on them, they are models bla bla bla.. well, yeah, some are models and models need love like anyone else, so give em a shot. Heck, the last one I dated was a Heinekin model and I couldn't stand the beer. It didn't work out between us because she was busy all weekend with work and I was busy all week, we couldn't get enough of each other but we couldn't get enough of each other, ya know?
Hit on all women I always say!
Re: Where Do You Meet People??? Dharma Bum: BArs are definitely not a good place to find someone. Get involved with stuff you're interested in, and you'll already have common ground with someone if you're interested in them. Then it's just a matter of putting the signals out. It'll happen. "Trying" to meet people is tougher than just doing stuff and meeting people, if that makes sense. Just like people who try like hell to have kids and can't get pregnant, then they stop trying so hard and it happens.
Re: Where Do You Meet People??? thehitekrednek: I learned a lesson in high school (a million years ago); I needed to find a date for a dance and was kinda nervous but I asked out the head cheerleader, the conversation went like this " Hi, I know you probably already have a date for the dance and 15 others asking but I thought I would ask you anyway. (her reply) You're the first person to ask, and yes I will go with you." We had a great time and every guy there was jealous, afterwards they asked Ihow I landed the hottest chick in the school, I told them I just asked.
Guys are intimidated by pretty women and that is something I have never understood, they are the ones we want to date but some how we are still afraid to ask....Must be that rejection thing!
Will you go to the dance with me? :D
thr
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