Re: looking good.... Dharma Bum: My STBXW would/will be pissed off over this, although she'd never show it out of pride. She is EXTREMELY body conscious and EXTREMELY judgmental about excess weight, a hair out of place, etc. She is also convinced, I think, that I could never do better than her, or be happy without her. So, I'm looking forward to finding a new hottie who actually cares about me and loves me as much as I love her. Revenge is sweet.