Re:Those Pictures... Fresca: Thanks, Chey :)
This forum is absolutely invaluable in helping me ever-so-slowly regain my sanity after (what I though at the time) was the end of the world. It was SO good to know I wasn't the only one so deeply affected by the betrayal of a spouse, and I always hope that my posts help someone, somewhere, just a little bit.
I dip into the photo album in my head alot less often, but it is, and will always be, coiled up waiting to jump out when I least expect it. It's like having my own personal evil twin lurking about.
For the record, my compulsively lying ex continues to do so - I had to sign some paperwork recently regarding a house he purchased. Knowing he's making less money than when we were together, and knowing that his Chickie Babe has no marketable skills other than husband-stealing, I asked him how he put together the down payment. Mind you, I don't really care, I was just making polite conversation.
"Oh", he said, "A friend at work gave it to me". Right. ::)
I am so glad that loser is out of my life! 8)
Re:Those Pictures... Shanna: I am also permantently damaged by a liar/cheater. Poor Frideon has to deal with my constant lack of trust. HE and I are working on building my trust or my ability to do so. I can't remember his words enough to be able to quote him, but it helped all the same.
Fresca,
This letter is wonderful!! It is amazing how you are able to make me see the pictures in your head with just words. Sorry for the pain he caused you. I agree with everyone else....that we have shown strength and they aer weak.
Shanna
Re:Those Pictures... down south xhubbie: I can't imagine women caring like this
wow!!
emotionally available women OMG!!
It does give me hope for the future. :-\
Re:Those Pictures... lvaughn24: Im glad you found a good man.
Re:Those Pictures... Fresca: down south xhubbie - I think you will find alot of betrayed wives that don't understand 'why', loved their husbands deeply, and are never able to understand the 'why'. I think many women can't understand why their beloved husband went outside the marriage for affection while they were so oblivious to their spouse's unhappiness. I was clueless, myself, right until the evidence slapped me in the face.
lvaughn24: Thanks - it's amazing that I was so prepared to live the rest of my life as a single girl, but fate brought me a wonderful, strong, understanding, and supportive man when I wasn't looking. You just never know.
And that's why life is such a wonderful thing.
-fresca
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