Re: First visitation! BONILLAK: The lawyers scheduled this for now but now he is already late! You think for not seeing your kids in 7wks one would be on time! I would love for him to see his kids anytime he wants, the thing is, he doesn't make that effort. Its a shame for them. I sure hope he shows up as they are all waiting for him at the window :(
Re: First visitation! ajw: Just make sure you document all the times,he never shows up.....it shows him in court to be unreliable and irresponsible.
Andy
Re: First visitation! jadedangel: [quote author=LivingANewLife link=topic=21008.msg196327#msg196327 date=1130558383">
I surely don't want him but I do want him to see what he is missing! Am I cruel? Nah, maybe just a little vindictive.LOL
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[color=navy"> I think it helps us to be 'vindictive' -- I say congrats and show him up. But, don't think that just a size change will show him that -- your confidence, your happiness and your attitude are all going to play into it --- and maybe he was late -- coz he didn't want to face the fact of all that he gave up ;) ...
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Re: First visitation! BONILLAK: He showed up 30mins late, said bus was late. So ok. Now they all left and our 3 yr old was crying for me now as he wanted me to go too. Let him learn to deal with a crying child all upset looking for the other parent. He seemed very uncomfortable here almost like he was afraid to walk in. He only looked at me once and didn't look very happy. I told him that I'm going out for the day and the kids want to carve pumpkins so if they come here to do that just clean up after themselves. I also told him where all his clothes are at but he just seemed interested in a coat. He seems uncomfortable with the kids too, like he didn't know how to act. I have a feeling its going to be a long day for him. Our 16yr old was very cold towards him....the whole thing is a mess
Re: First visitation! Falcon554: [quote author=LivingANewLife link=topic=21008.msg196415#msg196415 date=1130599662">
He showed up 30mins late, said bus was late. So ok. Now they all left and our 3 yr old was crying for me now as he wanted me to go too. Let him learn to deal with a crying child all upset looking for the other parent. He seemed very uncomfortable here almost like he was afraid to walk in. He only looked at me once and didn't look very happy. I told him that I'm going out for the day and the kids want to carve pumpkins so if they come here to do that just clean up after themselves. I also told him where all his clothes are at but he just seemed interested in a coat. He seems uncomfortable with the kids too, like he didn't know how to act. I have a feeling its going to be a long day for him. Our 16yr old was very cold towards him....the whole thing is a mess
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Im so sorry, that sucks. My 19year old son really does not like my wife at all. He sees his mom acting like a slut and it kills him, he even hit the house one day. So sad im telling you.
He will get his, just like my wife will get hers someday. Be happy he is not happy. My wife seems happy untill she calls me and telling me she is a whore and slut.
Have a good day without the kids, take care of yourself.
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