Re: New here- my story alonewith2: It doesn't matter that you weren't married or even engaged yet, you're pain is still real. You were expecting or atleast hoping for a future with this woman, and now you are back at square 1.
All the advice you have gotten so far from everyone else is great. I don't have much to add, but I wanted to validate your feelings for you. Welcome, and post often or read the posts of everyone else. Hopefully you will be able to find some great advice or stories that will enable you to adjust to your new situation and find some positives out of life!