Re: Insecurities?! Wolfman: [quote author=qualt link=topic=21052.msg196818#msg196818 date=1130705039">
hell no your not the only one. I am a guy and i know how guys are. there is no such thing as guys only wanting a purely plutonic relationship with a girl. i always hated her having guy friends.
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damn right. this guy knows what he's talking about. I too trusted a beooch and did stuff out of what I believed to be doing was the RIGHT thing, but I got played like a violin.
Re: Insecurities?! Jessy_Miami: [quote author=Mystic Rain link=topic=21052.msg196815#msg196815 date=1130703923">
NOBODY HAS HAD INSECURITIES??????
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Her best friend wanted to fuck her... so, I don't believe that bs of friends opposite sex. And yes, I feel insecure.
Re: Insecurities?! Falcon554: I never worried about her friends, well I should of the one she had the affair with I shook his fing hand a year ago :( Whats good now is that they HATE each other :) Makes me smile.
Re: Insecurities?! Mooneyes: I wasn't insecure. Although I don't think he cheated on me. I did tell him when a teenage girl called him at home, not to let that happen again. He was a DJ for a local radio station, so they get followers and admirers.... just something you have to deal with.. Although Howard Stern's wife divorced him.... didn't she?
Anyway I wasn't insecure, he never gave me a reason to be insecure.
Perhaps you have a reason for it.
Re: Insecurities?! WhiskeyGirl: [quote author=Mooneyes link=topic=21052.msg196848#msg196848 date=1130711490">
Perhaps you have a reason for it.
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Yeah, I want to say something along the same lines......mabey its insecurity but the fact is you don't trust him. Thats what it boils down to, it doesn't matter who he is friends with, she could be drop dead gorgeous, and the smartest, sweetest thing on earth, but the fact is you should trust HIM enough to know that he loves you..period! Why don't you trust him? Thats what I would be asking myself.
I am not insecure, I haven't been in any of my past relationships....I make a choice to trust someone and thats it, otherwise there is no point. Without trust you have nothing. Who knows? mabey he will cheat...people do, it happens.....but worrying about it and stressing over who he keeps company with is not going to make in any less likely to happen, its not going to make it hurt any less if it does either. All its going to do is make you stressed out and unhappy, and hey! mabey he wont cheat!! How about that, imagine worrying about this and being insecure about it for years and years only to look back 25 yrs from now and realize it NEVER happened! OMG! what a waste of time it was to be so concerned about something that never happened, and how sad that you never really trusted someone that actually deserved your trust.
The only thing in life that is a sure thing is that nothing is a sure thing...get used to it, place your bets....make them informed bets, but place them and then let go and enjoy the ride :D
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